It started as me asking him to please see a counselor on his own. That I know things have been stressful and maybe he can vent to someone who can provide some perspective. It quickly became a "bash Amy" session.
He doesn't think he needs counseling...his stress comes from me and if I "fix" me his stress will go away.
I'm NOT broken
Seperation was brought up...not as a path to divorce, but as a means to "start over"
He says I'm selfish because my priorities are Lexi, Me, Him...in that order. And not Lexi, Him, Me. He thinks I should put him before myself.
Among other things, I've screwed him by making us go bankrupt, I'm a princess who gets angry when I don't get my way, and I haven't tried to make things work...even though he has.
He says he is willing to anything to save our marriage...can't imagine life without me...but yet he won't see the counselor?
My therapist says I'm easily manipulated and he's taking advantage of that.
I'm so confused, hurt, angry, sad...